Archive for December, 2011

[My Thoughts on...] The Clarisonic Mia and My New Face Cleansing Routine

Posted in BEAUTY TREATMENT, FACE, FACE CLEANSER, MELI'S THOUGHTS ON..., SKINCARE with tags on December 30, 2011 by stylebymeli


I’m happy to announce that I FINALLY (after talking about it months ago) purchased a Clarisonic Mia.  For those of you that are not familiar with this revolutionary and high-tech skin cleansing contraption, basically it is a handheld face cleanser (although they also now carry one that can cleanse the body) with a brush head that gently pulsates to cleanse the skin with a built-in timer.

I purchased the Clarisonic Mia (which is one of the most basic models) towards the beginning of the month as an early Christmas/birthday gift to myself, since I have always wanted to try it and every single person I know that owns a Clarisonic states that they cannot imagine life without it.

Many people have also expressed to me that the clarity of their skin has improved tremendously and as I have expressed in previous blogs, I’m kind of going through a skin crisis.  (Please excuse that I tend to over exaggerate, but I’m sure you already know this by now ;)).  By “skin crisis,” I’m talking about adult acne.  I realize there are many people besides myself that are experiencing this, but for someone like myself that has a high standard of how the skin should look and had clear skin for many years, it truly is a skin crisis.  (I have concluded that the breakouts I’m experiencing are definitely hormonal and caused as a result of getting off birth control, over a year ago).

Moving ahead to discuss my thoughts on the Clarisonic Mia, I’ll be completely honest….

*  I think that this is definitely a great skincare investment and the whole concept is phenomenal.  I believe that the Clarisonic definitely gives the skin a good deep cleaning and leaves the skin feeling great afterwards.  However, I don’t believe that this electronic face cleanser is going to guarantee you perfect skin or even improve the texture of your skin for that matter.  I haven’t used it for a full month yet, but I have used it for enough time to make this assessment (on myself personally).  I have not seen my acne clear up at all (which again, I think I’m suffering from something hormonal, so nothing topical is really going to make an impact).  Despite my initial thoughts, I’m going to be patient and hope to see results over time with continued use.

*  In my opinion, the greatest benefit of the Clarisonic is that it has a timer that provides consistency, which in the long run I think will lead to results.  Without a timer, it’s hard to know if you’re spending enough time cleaning your face.  When using a Clarisonic, it will actually automatically shut off after each single use.

*  I’m a little nervous if the pulsating is too rough on the skin?  I haven’t read much research regarding this subject but my concern with a pulsating face cleanser is, will it create wrinkles?  I know this is going to sound very crazy, but I just noticed for the first time in my life that I have extremely fine lines under my eyes that just seemed to magically appear out of no where!  I’m not stressed over it, they are minor, but I wonder if it’s possible that this was caused by the Clarisonic?  I know people are going to tell me absolutely not, but it still makes me wonder.

How I Use My Clarisonic Mia:

Personally, I only use it once a day when I take a shower and conveniently store it there.  I know they say it’s best to use it also at night when you take off your makeup, but I kind of think it’s a bit excessive to use it twice a day.

While I’m in the shower:  Being that I’m a little concerned regarding the roughness of the pulsating brush, I first massage into my face an oil based cleanser with my hands.  In my shower, I have Origins Clean Energy, which I find to be an amazing cleanser in itself.  It has a nice scent and leaves the skin feeling soft and supple.  After I let that sit for a few minutes, instead of completely rinsing it off, I then go ahead and use the Clarisonic Mia with a completely different face cleanser (non-oil based).  I have quite a number of facial cleansers in my shower and when I decide on what to use, I’ll go ahead and rub a little on the face and then load up the actual brush head with a small amount of the cleanser.  I’ll turn the Clarisonic on rub the face in circular motions until it shuts off.  Afterwards I rinse my face completely.

[Once I'm out of the shower, I'll use a skin toner followed by a moisturizer.  If I had a good face serum right now, then I would tone the skin, apply the serum, and then lastly moisturize].

[What are your thoughts on the Clarisonic Mia?]

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Holiday Weekend Recap and New Shoes from Santa

Posted in FASHION, HOLIDAY, MELI'S FAB FINDS, SHOES, SHOPPING with tags , , , , , , , on December 26, 2011 by stylebymeli

I love this holiday mug, it's so true!

I hope everyone had a spectacular holiday weekend (if you celebrate Christmas).  It was especially great for me as the past couple days were the first days off I had the entire month.  I finally had the opportunity to relax and also spend quality time with my beloved friends/family.  I thought it would be great to write a post sharing my weekend with everyone!

On Friday, I threw a holiday party at my home for my closest friends.  It was great seeing everyone including friends that traveled out of state and ones I had not seen in a very long time.

Here is a photo from my party with a few of my best friends. I am wearing a dress from Bebe and finally got a chance to wear red lips this holiday season! I knew that red lips with a black and white dress is just styling perfection. It's just classic. FYI, I'm wearing MAC "Lasting Lust" prolongwear (as I've stated is the only red I wear).

On Saturday (Christmas Eve), I had my parents over for an early dinner that I made which was nice because I don’t get to have them over nearly as often as I’d like to.  Although my parents live about 15 minutes away, It’s just hard to spend quality time together with all our schedules varying dramatically.

A closer look at my living room. I honestly did not have much time to do much holiday decorating so my tree is pretty simple.

Christmas Day started off with lots of baking (and where I somehow managed to fit in a one hour jog outside since it was perfect running weather).  The rest of the day I spent with close friends that live in my neighborhood.  The day definitely went by fast and I didn’t arrive home until after midnight.

I made chocolate mint brownies with crushed candy cakes and organic blondie bars with a layer of white chocolate on top, then topped with dried cranberries and chopped walnuts. I like to put a creative spin when I bake and make it my own.

Lastly, I wanted to share with everyone a stunning pair of shoes I got for Christmas (I picked them out of course!)

These Gucci snakeskin peep toe heels are existe. The actual peep toe itself is really unique and features a triangle cut-out. It's the little styling details that make or break a shoe.

I love the gold studded heel. These shoes are both classy and edgy all at the same time, which completely captures my style aesthetic. I like to look modern, edgy, and fashion-ward, but with a high level of taste, soft sophistication, and full of femininity.

[How was your holiday weekend?]

[Outfit Post] with a Sparkly Nude Dress, Jeffrey Campbell Gold Unicorn Heels, and Festive Jewelry…A Glamourous Holiday Look

Posted in DRESSES, FASHION, HOLIDAY, JEWELRY, LIPS - LIPSTICKS, MELI'S FAB FINDS, MELI'S STYLE VAULT, OUTFIT POST, SHOES, SHOPPING with tags , , , on December 21, 2011 by stylebymeli

For starters, I hope everyone is having a wonderful month!  I greatly apologize for my absence (don’t worry, it’s only temporary)!  Anyhow, I wanted to share a look I captured from this past weekend.  I wore this to a Christmas party.

I love the holiday season as it gives me an opportunity to dress up more and I can be much more experimental with my style. 

About This Outfit:

[The Outfit]:  I am wearing a sparkly mini dress from H&M.  (H&M, who would ever think?)  To be completely honest, I don’t shop there.  I’m not a fan of the quality of most their clothing and they really don’t fit me too well.  I find that their clothes are not built for curvy women.  The store is very hit-or-miss so I don’t even bother shopping there.  Surprisingly, I bought this dress off a friend of mine who was trying to sell it to Beacon’s Closet but they didn’t take it.  Oh well, their loss, NOT MINE!  ;)  I LOVE the dress except the silver sparkles/glitter sheds! (This is what I mean by their stuff not being top notch in the quality department).

[Styling Confession]:  This dress was actually MUCH longer, but anyone who knows my style, knows that any dress or skirt I own has to hit above the knee.   [Why?  Showing more leg will actually visually make the appearance of the legs look much longer (let's not forget I am only 5'1"...but I guess you would never know by all the high heels I wear ;)!]  

The shoes are Jeffrey Campbell and were recently featured in my [Style Vault].  I was SO VERY excited to finally rock these!

[Where to wear this outfit]:  This is definitely a party look.  It’s fun, fancy, and fabulous…all at the same time!

[Stylish Notes]:

-  I really had NO intentions to wear this dress with black tights, but being that my tailor hemmed this dress a little TOO SHORT, I didn’t really have a choice in the matter.  In a styling situation like this, wearing black tights is the perfect solution.  This way you don’t feel like you’re half naked (DEFINITELY NOT what I was going for) and you can manage to wear the dress in a tasteful manner.    

-  Surprisingly, I actually ended up liking the black tights paired with this dress as it created a high contrast against the nude dress.  My styling aesthetic is all about creating the perfect contrast.

 - I absolutely love the ruching effect down the sides of the sleeves and in the center towards the top of this dress.  It’s just an extra styling detail that shouldn’t go unnoticed.

Closer look at my jewelry. I am wearing my gold plated "Meli" necklace, a cocktail ring, and I stacked two beautiful bracelets: a vintage white beaded one that my mother owned and a Guess green jeweled bracelet. They look great together and the green adds just a little pop of color.

- I’m also all about sparkles for the holiday season.  I mean of course you can wear sparkly stuff year-round, but I personally like to save it for the holidays and special occasions.

In case you wanted to take a closer look at my hair (it’s actually styled!)and makeup…

I had my hair curled (wish I could say I did it myself, but I can't style hair whatsoever. All I did was throw it half-up once I got home). With makeup, it took me awhile to figure out how to coordinate it with the outfit. I really wanted to wear a red lip with this, but I felt I would run the risk of looking over-styled (sparkly dress, gold shoes, curly hair, and then a red lip?! It's like, "Whoa Meli, let's take down the style down a notch, no?!") Hence I went a little smokey with the eyes and a bright baby pink lip (MAC "Saint Germain" lipstick). I couldn't ask for a better styling outcome.

[Thanks for viewing!  Thoughts?]

My 2011 Beauty/Style Holiday Wishlist…Just a Few Things I Really Want This Year

Posted in HANDBAGS, HOLIDAY, MAKE-UP, MAKE-UP BRUSHES, SHOPPING, YSL on December 15, 2011 by stylebymeli

I cannot believe that Christmas is only 10 days away, while the year is also quickly coming to a close.  Thankfully, I have gotten about 90% of my Christmas shopping complete and almost everything is wrapped and snug under the tree.  

I’ve been spending a lot of time shopping this month for friends and family, which has also allowed me to do some personal shopping for myself where I have come across a few things I would LOVE to have!  There’s honestly nothing I truly NEED right now, but there are definitely a few beauty and style things that are on my radar!

My Beauty/Style Holiday Wishlist:

*  NARS Yachiyo kabuki brush #27 – I heard this is an amazing brush and by the looks of it, it truly looks exquisite!

*  Ole Henrikson Truth Serum Collegen Booster – I have been wanting this for quite sometime now.  I’m just in dire need of a face serum (I currently don’t have one at the moment).

[Based on its reviews and by using ample samples from Sephora, I really like everything about it!  I'm all about the vitamin C complex and its anti-aging effects!  (Gotta keep the skin tight and flawless!)]

*  YSL Rouge Pur #22 “Pink Celebration” lipstick - I love YSL lipsticks and would love to add this one to my collection.

[This is a pretty bubble gum pink with a blue undertone.  I tend to always gravitate towards those shades.  It kind of reminds me of MAC's "Saint Germain" lipstick, which is my all-time favorite shade.]

*  Wallet – Although I’m very in much love with my current wallet that’s from Harrod’s (a popular department store in the UK), I have been rocking it for the past few years and it’s kind of time to retire it.  The wallet is showing some wear and honestly, I need a change!

[I'm currently lusting Kate Spade's "zip travel wallet" in a cream color pebbled leather.  It is an oversized wallet with a very simple design.  I just like the size of it and how organized it is inside!  The only problem is, it's not current so I cannot find it anywhere!]

*  Fur bag –  I have been looking for a fur bag for quite sometime now, they are just hard to come by these days!

This is a mink fur bag by Valentino. I like the shape. The color is also interesting.

[What do you want this holiday season?]

Meli’s Top 5 Tips to Stay Slim This Holiday Season (and Overall Secrets to My Fabulously Fit Lifestyle)

Posted in DIET, FITNESS with tags , , on December 12, 2011 by stylebymeli

Mmm gingerbread cookies...they're good until you start to resemble one! Read my health tips on how to stay skinny this holiday season! (Yes, you can still enjoy a cookie and indulge!).

With the holidays quickly approaching, I’m sure many of you don’t want to gain a single pound, but may not know how to prevent it from happening.  

This has inspired me to write a fabulous fitness post to keep you motivated along with my secrets to staying slim during the holiday season (and all the time for that matter)!  I don’t gain weight during the holidays and you don’t have to either, just follow my health/fitness tips and you’ll stay golden! ;)

Let me start off with my basic principles of staying fit and healthy.  To keep it easy to remember, I have broken it down to three D’s (and NO, Deprivation is thankfully NOT one of them!)  I believe these basic principles are the keys to success in all aspects of life and health is no exception!

*  DESIRE:  Everything starts with DESIRE.  By this I mean, you need to ask yourself, “HOW BAD DO YOU WANT IT?”  In this scenario, you need to ask yourself, “How badly do you want to maintain optimal health?”  OR how about, “How badly do you want to look and feel your absolute BEST?”

[I'm naturally a very highly motivated individual.  I want all the good things in life.  I have high desires and expectations.  So for me, the DESIRE is there!  And I'm sure you all have the DESIRE to look/feel good and stay fit (or else you probably would not have gotten this far reading this blog post ;)...SO NOW WHAT...]

*  DEDICATION:  Okay, so you’ve already thought to yourself, “I really want to be fit and not gain weight this holiday season.”  That’s GREAT to hear!  But now this is where DEDICATION comes in (along with 100% commitment).  You need to now ask, “How dedicated am I to myself?  How dedicated am I to stay fit and healthy?”  If you are truly as dedicated as you say you are, then naturally…this is where ACTION takes place.

With dedication comes ACTION.  Anyone can say, “I would love to be fit and healthy” but if your ACTIONS do NOT match your desires, then unfortunately you won’t get anywhere.

This is where you also need to figure out what keeps you dedicated.  What will be your action plan?

[For me personally, I'm honestly 100% dedicated to my health and fitness.  Anyone who thinks I just magically wake up with a 24" waist is mistaken.  Okay, yes good genes are somewhat accountable [THANKS MOM!!], but let’s be real, I WORK for it!  (Surprisingly, I don’t even do a ton of ab moves, but I’m just dedicated to my fitness in general which is what allows for me to maintain a tight physique).

OKAY, what action do I take to stay dedicated you may ask.  I’ll tell you, plain and simple:  I work out a minimum of 5-6 days a week.  Seven days if I’m lucky.  I don’t spend a lot of time either.  It’s the QUALITY of your workout that counts most, not so much the QUANTITY  (or time spent during a single gym session).  Sometimes I really only have 20 or 30 minutes that I can spend at the gym, but you better believe I PUSH MYSELF much harder within that short amount of time.

While for some, working out is a chore…for me, it’s my lifestyle!  I love to work out and that’s why I find the time to do so pretty much every day!  It not only makes me look great, it makes me feel AMAZING!  I’m also a SUPER healthy eater because I’m DEDICATED and fully committed to living a healthy life!]

*  DISCIPLINE:  Okay this is where the hard part may come in for everyone, but this is ESSENTIAL!  DISCIPLINE is what makes you STRONGER!  (Not just physically, mentally too of course).

[By default, I strive to live a very disciplined lifestyle.  Many people may find my way of life "boring" and not appreciate it, but honestly, I don't really care what people think.  I think more people NEED discipline in their lives.  As I already stated, discipline is what makes you a STRONGER person at the end of the day.

Although I have VERY little free time this month due to work and holiday festivities, this does NOT mean that my workouts and healthy eating go out the window.  QUITE THE OPPOSITE.  If anything, I'm 100x more motivated this month to make fitness/health a PRIORITY.  Lately, I have been dragging myself out of bed at 6 or 6:30AM (which I'll admit is a little early for me) to get to the gym because this is the only time I have to go.  TRUST ME, I'm a zombie when I get there...but boy, do I feel great afterwards!  This is how I practice DISCIPLINE.  It may kill me to have to get up that early, running on very little sleep sometimes but I just have to stick with the mindset, "what doesn't kill me, makes me stronger!"]

I’m now going to share 5 health tips to stay slim this holiday season.  Keep in mind that these are things you should be doing all the time (not just for the holidays) to maintain optimal health.   Everything I list here are things I do year-round, but I realize this may be new health territory for some of you which is why I wanted to share my personal health/fitness tips that allow for me to stay ultra-slim and uber-healthy!  ENJOY! :)

1-  Drink lots of fluids (preferably water and tea!) –  When I say drink lots of fluids, I’m NOT talking alcoholic beverages and egg nog (SORRY!).  Generally, I try to drink lots of fluids throughout the day.  I only drink water and tea.  I probably make one or two pots of tea a day.  I believe drinking lots of water (and tea) is just great for the body because it keeps everything running more efficiently and also keeps you more full, meaning you are more likely to eat less.

2-  Pack as many meals as possible –  I pretty much prepare ALL my meals throughout the week.  This way there is no way for me to slip up and buy something that is full of of empty calories and processed manmade ingredients that are TOXIC to the body!  I pack healthy lunches and snacks that keep me full and taste delicious!

Examples of my daily meal plans include:  spinach salad with grilled salmon, baby carrots with hummus, greek yogurt with blueberries and sliced almonds, etc.  I always make sure there is a healthy balance of lean proteins, vegetables, and fruits included in my daily diet.

3-  Eat little meals throughout the day -  I cannot stress enough how important this is.  I honestly eat all day and manage to stay skinny.  That may sound like a contradiction but eating every few hours is what keeps the metabolism going strong.  When you  don’t feed your body for extended periods of time, you’re putting it in starvation mode, which then leads to a major food binge by the time you finally get the chance to eat.  It’s the body’s biological response to eat everything in sight when you deprive it, so please don’t do this to yourself!  Even if can just fit in a small snack such as an apple in between meals, this is better than nothing!

4 –  Stay [extra] active by exercising more this month -  Working out and staying active is just as important as eating well.  You should already be finding ways to stay active and this time of year, dedicate a little EXTRA time towards exercising to ensure you won’t gain any excess weight.  You need to find the time to stay active and can do so any way you choose.  For me, some of my favorite things are running and going to the gym to create my own personal circuit workouts.  (My personal circuit workouts include a great mix of basic power moves:  lunges, push-ups, squat jumps, calf raises, planks, etc.  I do it all!  Trust me, THEY WORK).

Also little lifestyle changes can still make an impact.  For example, when I’m faced with a set of stairs or an escalator, I always take the stairs because I know that it’s a short boost of cardio and also tightening my glutes! ;)

5 – Back off the sweets and indulge in moderation – I know this is exceptionally hard this time of year…trust me, I know (because I have a mega sweet tooth).  How does one resist the holiday cookie platter and all the other delicious desserts that come along with the holidays?  I totally believe it’s OKAY to indulge (like I said, I don’t believe in deprivation).  But just be extra mindful and conscientious of what you’re eating.  Instead of trying every single cookie on the platter, stick to just one or two that you know you’ll enjoy.  REMEMBER my three D’s:  DESIRE, DEDICATION, and DISCIPLINE!  If you really put these principles in perspective, chances are you will be less likely to dive in and eat that extra cookie!

[Do you have any health tips to share with me for staying slim?  If so, please share!]

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